I have only had one partner and I know that he has had two others before me. We have been having sexual intercourse for at least 2 months now and I had 3 bumps on my vagina show up a day or two ago. They aren’t sore, but they get a little irritated when i wear tight underwear the same as a mole would get irritated if something was rubbing against it. I’m not sure what they are; if they’re ingrown hairs from shaving, if they’re zits, or if I have genital herpes. Please only mature answers! =]

So would it put you off dating her and having sex with her or would you just not care

whether it’s black or brown and it’s raised

whether it’s black or brown and it’s raised

I tan somewhat frequently in high-pressure (or high powered) tanning beds – anywhere from 1-3x a week. A little less than a week ago, I noticed that a mole on my thigh had grown a little and now has some jagged edges – it almost looks like a jagged flower. Two more I have found to have white patches in them, with one of those two have a hint of pinkish-red to it. Plus I am developing two tiny freckle-type moles that have suddenly appeared over the past two weeks. My dermatologist appointment is Monday to have them looked at. Does this sound like melanoma at all? I’m pretty nervous. Also, what is the typical treatment for abnormal moles?
I need to add something: I’ve only been tanning for a year or so, and try to reserve it for between April-October. This year, I’ve started in February, and I’ve started using some of the strongest tanning beds (think Tan Co.’s "level 5" beds) at least once every few weeks.
@Cyufu: This is not acne, you jerk. Melanoma and acne are not the same thing. This is something potentially serious, so I would appreciate it if you didn’t spam me.